How To Prepare For Divorce

3 Ways To Get Ready For Divorce

The word “divorce” makes most couples flinch, but divorce happens in over 50% of United States’ marriages. Plenty of support outlets exist for getting couples through the process itself and the aftermath. Still, most couples need guidance on how to prepare for divorce. Divorce lawyer Mariam Ebrahimi, Esq. provides some guides for the initial prep work.


Find a Lawyer
The emotional upheaval of divorce often means a lawyer is the last thing on anyone’s mind, but you will need one. An experienced divorce lawyers can help you and your spouse reach a conclusion for every aspect that a divorce entails, like who will pay off debts, who handles mortgages and medical bills, and how custody should be shared. Once the attorney is finished gathering information, he or she will be your representative before the court system. This will allow you to focus on your health and healing.

Talk it Out
It may sound counterproductive, but if possible, discuss openly that both of you want this divorce. Before divorcing, make sure both of you have agreed all alternatives were pursued. Please note that this does not apply if your spouse is abusive. It may also not work in other situations, such as if your spouse has severely broken trust in any way.

Plan and Prepare
You need a plan for your next steps well before the divorce is finalized. Key questions include where you will live, whether you will keep your job, how you will handle custody of children (if you are granted custody), and more. Make sure you have a support system to fall back on as well. This can include family members, trusted friends, and clergy. In some cases, you may need law enforcement support as well.

If a divorce will be pursued, make sure you have an experienced and knowledgeable divorce lawyer on your side. Mariam Ebrahimi, Esq. has served a number of clients in the northern Virginia area, and is ready to consult with you. Contact her today.

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